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About Us

Your Alcohol Free Journey is a pioneering social enterprise with a mission to empower individuals on the path to sobriety.
 
Offering alcohol-free events, online sobriety coaching, and invaluable resources, we focus on addressing the root causes of alcohol consumption. Our unique approach aims to create a supportive environment for personal growth and transformation.

Hi, I'm Xiomara... and I'm husband Patrick...
And together we're the AF couple!

Here's our story: We quit drinking together over three and a half years ago. Becoming alcohol free together truly changed our relationship for the better.

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Xiomara

I am an Alcohol-Free Life Coach certified in:

  • Tantra Yoga

  • Mindset Coaching

  • Alcohol-Free Life Coaching

  • Success Coaching

  • NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)

I help individuals create healthier, more fulfilling lives through sobriety, mindset shifts, and holistic wellbeing practices through alcohol free events and groups. 

Patrick

Social Worker 

Helps Run / Co-Host Events

Loves to chat - nicknamed "Chatty Patty"

Our wake-up call happened on a trip to Costa Rica. We fell in love with Costa Rica, and on our last night, we didn’t want it to end.

 

But instead of making beautiful memories, we both blacked out, couldn’t remember how we got back to our Airbnb, and put ourselves in danger. That night also ended in a huge argument — one we only remember fragments of.

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From the outside, people would tell us we were the dream couple, that we were inspiring people in love. But the truth was, alcohol was didn't always reflect that side of our relationship.

 

We realized we had a choice: either quit drinking and work on our relationship sober, or keep going down the same destructive path and risk losing it all.

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We chose each other.

Sobriety gave us clarity.

 

Our communication got stronger, our connection deepened, and for the first time in a long time, we were learning and growing instead of numbing and avoiding.

 

For Xiomara, drinking used to mean shutting down whenever she was triggered. She’d forget what bothered her and never speak up to work through it. Without alcohol, she could finally face challenges, speak up, and move forward.

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​​We both took different approaches to our sobriety. Patrick joined AA in the beginning for structure and support, while Xiomara dove into books and joined an online community that made her feel empowered instead of ashamed.

 

Taking different approaches showed us that there isn’t just one “right” way to do this — and it also opened our eyes to how much stigma still exists around not drinking. It made us want to create more positive, empowering spaces for alcohol-free living.​

Now, living alcohol-free feels like second nature. Sure sometimes we have our moments but as time goes on it gets easier and it’s just who we are.

 

Our relationship is better than ever, and our family has grown with our newest AF little member, Zenoro.

​Quitting alcohol was the best decision we’ve ever made. It gave us back our connection, our health, and our joy. That’s why we're so passionate about helping people like you find the same freedom and happiness.

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After all, this isn’t just our story — it’s your alcohol free journey too.

Start your alcohol free journey today...

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